Intended parents

Nicolas Terrassin

Doing their journey in Canada

About them

We are Nicolas and Michele, a French and Italian couple living in Brussels, Belgium, and we are incredibly excited to begin this beautiful journey toward becoming parents. Together for almost 12 years, we have built a loving, stable, and joyful life filled with travel, laughter, meaningful friendships, and strong family values. Becoming parents has been a dream we have shared for many years, and we feel deeply ready to welcome a child into a home full of warmth, care, and unconditional love.

Relationship status

Civil partnership

We have been together for almost 12 years, and our relationship has always been built on love, trust, communication, and a lot of laughter. We met in Brussels shortly after both moving there for work, and what started as a chance encounter quickly became something very meaningful for both of us.

Over the years, we have built a strong and balanced partnership where we support one another through every stage of life. We complement each other very naturally: Michele is energetic, outgoing, and passionate, while Nicolas is calm, thoughtful, and grounding. Together, we create a relationship filled with warmth, stability, adventure, and mutual respect.

We love traveling, discovering new cultures, cooking together, spending time with friends and family, and enjoying simple moments at home with our dog Madie. Becoming parents has been one of our biggest shared dreams, and we are incredibly excited to take this next step together and grow our family with so much love to give.

Their journey

Home area

Belgium

Approximate area

Journey country

Canada

Financial preparedness

We understand how important financial clarity and stability are throughout the surrogacy journey, and we want our surrogate to feel fully supported, reassured, and cared for every step of the way. We are both established professionals with stable careers in finance management and hospitality management, and we have been thoughtfully preparing for this journey for several years.

We have planned a dedicated budget that covers all pregnancy-related costs and expenses, including medical treatments, medications, travel, maternity needs, insurance requirements, legal support, lost wages if needed, and any additional support necessary to ensure comfort and peace of mind throughout the process. Our goal is for our surrogate to feel supported both emotionally and financially so she can focus on herself, her well-being, and the pregnancy without unnecessary stress.

Beyond the financial aspect, we truly see this journey as a partnership built on trust, respect, transparency, and kindness. We are committed to being responsible, reliable, and present throughout the entire experience, and we want our surrogate to always feel valued, appreciated, and supported from beginning to end.

Embryos

Yes.

We currently have 7 frozen embryos created with the help of our egg donor, and all have been PGT-A tested with very positive results. Our embryos are safely stored at Victory Reproductive Care Clinic in Canada.

Clinic

Victory Reproductive Care

Lawyer

Sara Cohen

What they're looking for

Their hopes and requirements for a surrogate

Requirements

We are very open-minded and above all looking for a kind, genuine, and emotionally positive connection with our surrogate. Of course, we will follow the medical guidelines and recommendations from the clinic to ensure the best possible conditions for everyone involved.

In general, the clinic is looking for someone with a healthy pregnancy history, a stable lifestyle, and overall good physical and emotional health. Beyond medical criteria, what matters most to us is building a relationship based on trust, communication, respect, and mutual comfort throughout this journey together.

The relationship we hope to build

Above all, we are hoping to meet someone kind, caring, and open-hearted with whom we can build a genuine and trusting relationship. We truly value honesty, good communication, mutual respect, and a positive connection throughout the journey.

We would love to share this experience with someone who feels comfortable staying in touch regularly and who sees surrogacy not only as a medical process, but also as a meaningful human journey. Whether she is very outgoing or more reserved does not matter to us — what matters most is feeling comfortable together and building a relationship based on warmth, understanding, and trust.

Views on termination

We believe this is a very important topic that deserves openness, sensitivity, and mutual understanding from the beginning. Our priority will always be the health, safety, and well-being of both the surrogate and the baby, and we believe decisions in difficult situations should be approached with compassion, respect, and thoughtful medical guidance.

We are open to discussing these matters honestly together to ensure that everyone feels comfortable, aligned, and supported before moving forward. For us, clear communication, trust, and shared understanding are essential throughout the entire journey.

The intended parents

Nicolas Terrassin(He/Him)

37 years old

Communicates in

French, English, and Italian

Occupation

Finance Manager

Sexual orientation

Gay

Fun facts about me

I love staying active and outdoors, and my friends often joke that I can turn any trip into a walking tour. Whether it’s running, hiking, or simply exploring a city on foot, I always enjoy discovering places slowly and taking everything in.

Interests and hobbies

I’m naturally curious about the world and love learning, discovering, and experiencing new things. One of the things I enjoy the most is traveling, especially when it gives me the opportunity to explore different cultures, meet people from different backgrounds, and discover local food and traditions. I always come back inspired from those experiences.

I also love staying active and spending time outdoors. Running and hiking are activities that help me feel balanced and energized, and I enjoy taking every opportunity to go jogging or spend time in nature whenever my schedule allows it.

Another passion of mine is geopolitics and European affairs. I enjoy understanding how the world evolves and having meaningful conversations about culture, society, and international topics. At the same time, I’m someone who deeply values simple moments: cooking at home, sharing time with family and friends, laughing together, and enjoying a cozy evening with the people I love.

For me, life is about building meaningful connections, staying curious, and creating a warm and loving environment around the people who matter most.

What friends say

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My friends would describe me as calm, thoughtful, and genuinely kind. I’m someone who values meaningful relationships and who always tries to bring a sense of balance, support, and positivity to the people around me. I’m a good listener, and my friends know they can always rely on me.
They would also say I’m curious and open-minded. I love discovering new cultures, traveling, learning about the world, and sharing good food and experiences with family and friends. At the same time, I’m very grounded and deeply attached to the simple joys of everyday life.
I think the people close to me would describe me as someone sincere, reliable, and caring, with a calm personality and a warm heart.
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(He/Him)

33 years old

Communicates in

English, Italian, and French

Occupation

Hotel Manager

Sexual orientation

Gay

Fun facts about me

Most people are surprised to learn that I still “fly” regularly even after leaving aviation! I have a semi-professional flight simulator setup at home and occasionally fly small aircrafts with an instructor. Aviation has always been one of my biggest passions and still gives me an incredible sense of freedom.

Interests and hobbies

I’m someone who genuinely loves discovering and enjoying everything life has to offer, from simple everyday moments to exciting new adventures. Spending quality time with the people I love means a lot to me, whether it’s sharing a nice dinner with friends, traveling together, or simply relaxing at home with our dog, Madie. I also love long walks, especially when I can disconnect a little and enjoy the moment.

One of the biggest passions in my life has always been aviation. I worked as a flight attendant for almost 10 years, and flying truly shaped who I am today. It gave me the opportunity to discover the world, meet incredible people, and experience so many unforgettable moments. Even though I no longer fly professionally, aviation is still a huge part of my life. I have a flight simulator at home, which still gives me that same feeling of excitement every time.

I also enjoy going to the gym, traveling, discovering new places and cultures, and cooking together at home. For me, happiness is really about sharing experiences, creating memories, and surrounding myself with warmth, laughter, and love.

What friends say

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My friends would describe me as warm, caring, and full of positive energy. I naturally enjoy taking care of the people around me and creating moments where everyone feels comfortable, included, and happy. I’m very people-oriented, which is something that has always shaped both my personal life and my career in hospitality.
They would probably also say I’m passionate and adventurous. Whether it’s traveling, aviation, organizing gatherings with friends, or building our future family, I always put my whole heart into the things I love. At the same time, I deeply value simple and meaningful moments at home with the people closest to me.
Above all, I think my friends know me as someone loyal, dependable, and emotionally present — someone they can truly count on.
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Their story

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