Tell your story where surrogates browse.
Share who you are, what you’re hoping for, and the family you’re building. Give a surrogate a chance to get to know you and your story.
Free to start. You only pay when you’re ready to be found.
How your profile gets noticed
Most of this happens without you doing anything.
- You get noticed
Your photo, a line from your intro, your city. That’s often all it takes.
- Your story gets read
Your home, your weekends, how you got here, read at the surrogate’s own pace.
- You see the interest
A heart, an anonymous question, a return visit. Each one reaches you.
- A surrogate writes to you
The first message is hers to send. The reply is yours.
One place, in your own words
Your profile is not an application. It’s more like a letter to a surrogate you haven’t met yet. The surrogate meets the real you, not a form, and your profile can grow as your story does.
Share your story, keep your privacy. Use first names or initials; surrogates see your general area, never your address.
Know you’re being noticed
Waiting is easier when you know someone is reading. You’ll know the moment a surrogate hearts your profile, asks a question or writes to you.
A heart means the surrogate liked what she read. Every sign of interest reaches you directly, with no one in between.
Share your story anywhere a future surrogate might be: friends, support groups, social media. And since many surrogates start close to home, the ones nearby can find you first.
What the waiting felt like, in intended parents’ words
“We'd been waiting over a year when we put our profile up. The first heart came that weekend. It didn't change anything on paper. It changed how the waiting felt.”
Amara and Jude · intended parents, Ontario“I kept my profile honest. Less polished than I wanted, more like me. That's the version people responded to.”
Daniel · intended parent, Colorado“Our surrogate read our profile a few times before she reached out. By the first call, she already knew who we were.”
Mei and Chris · intended parents, Washington“Nobody warns you how much of matching is waiting for someone to notice you. Having somewhere to be found made the waiting feel less like nothing.”
Priya and Tom · intended parents, Alberta“I wrote ours on a Sunday morning in about two hours. I kept meaning to go back and improve it. Three surrogates have told me they liked it exactly as it was.”
Sofia · intended parent, Texas“We are two dads, and we worried about that. The woman who matched with us said ours was the first profile where she could picture the actual household.”
Ben and Marcus · intended parents, British Columbia“The questions came before the messages. Small ones, no name attached. That is how we knew someone was really reading.”
Hannah and Ola · intended parents, Ohio“After our second match fell through I did not want to write anything ever again. Putting it back up was the first thing in months that felt like moving forward.”
Rachel · intended parent, Nova Scotia“Eleven weeks up. Forty-some hearts, four real conversations, and one that is still going.”
Aiden and Noor · intended parents, Illinois
Simple pricing
Write it at your own pace, for free. You only pay when you’re ready to be found.
If your agency is on Matching Day, your profile is free. Ask your agency.
Now it’s your turn
Free to start. You only pay when you’re ready to be found.