We are Rolf and Henning. We’ve built a life full of love, stability and care, surrounded by a close circle of family and friends, and our greatest wish is to share that with a child. We feel deep gratitude for the person who helps us on this journey and hope to build a warm, lasting connection along the way.

English, Spanish, and German
Aeronautical Engineer
Non-religious
Gay
I’m notoriously bad at ball sports. My dad, brothers, and Rolf are all super talented, but I usually spot the ball too late, and when I do hit it, it flies everywhere except where it should. I’m super competitive so I avoided these sports for a long time, but by now I can laugh about my wild shots and play anyway.
I love being on the move, whether it’s biking and hiking in summer, skiing in winter, or taking long road trips. I used to ride a motorcycle regularly, but these days I prefer a scooter. As a kid, I was an active glider pilot and loved seeing the world from above. That’s actually why I became an aerospace engineer.
When it comes to sleep, I have two personalities. I’m usually in bed by 10 pm and up early, feeling fresh and energized. Unless there's a chance to go dancing with friends. Then I’m one of the last to leave, totally happy to sacrifice my sleep.
I’ve dreamed of growing fig and olive trees ever since my first holidays in Italy. When we bought our house, they were among the first things I planted—but northern Germany’s weather just won’t fully cooperate. They grow, but they don’t exactly look like the lush ones thriving back in Italy!
I love spending time with my family. I grew up in western Germany with my two brothers in a close-knit family home. Family has always been a huge part of my life, and I feel incredibly lucky I have grown up surrounded by grandparents, aunts, and uncles who are still very important to me today. What means the most to me is how close my family and Rolf's family have become. Celebrating Christmas together this year, with Rolf’s family flying in from Chile, felt especially meaningful. I’m very excited to raise our child in such a loving, supportive, and connected circle of family and friends.
In my free time, I love being outdoors, especially hiking and biking, spending time with friends, meeting up for evenings at home, cooking and playing games together.
I’ve always loved travelling, but Rolf has taken it to a whole new level. At least once a year, we explore a different part of the world, and our frequent visits to his family keep us constantly on the move, discovering new cultures and landscapes. I truly enjoy it now more than ever.
Professionally, I studied Aeronautical Engineering and now work in project management. I really appreciate it because of its international environment, the variety it offers, and the opportunity to collaborate with people from diverse backgrounds and perspectives.
“”My friends would describe me as enthusiastic, caring, and very organized. I move through life with a lot of positive energy and excitement for the people and moments that matter to me.
At the same time, many of my friends would smile and say that I can never really sit still and relax. I almost always have a mental to-do list running in the background, thinking about what’s next and how to make things better.
A small example of this is when friends or family visit us. I love planning those days in detail, thinking about what they would enjoy, preparing meals, organizing little activities, and making sure everything feels welcoming and effortless for them. Seeing others feel comfortable and cared for when they are with us makes me really happy!


