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Intended parents

Kate W

Doing their journey in United States
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About them

We are John, Kate, Mary, Will and Watson (the dog child). We have always dreamed of having a relatively large family and we are hoping to add one more! We have already been through a succesful independent gestational carrier journey so we feel prepared for what this jounrney entails.

Relationship status

Married

We met outside of our freshman year dorm the first week of college in Vermont in 2004 and We started dating right away! We continued our love affair following graduation when we moved to Boston into our first apartment together. Kate presued her masters in special education while John worked in a science lab. John decided he wanted to continue his education by getting his Ph.d in Neuroscience, so we moved back to Connecticut where Kate grew up and her family still resides! After our incredible wedding surrounded by friends and family at Kate's home on the Connecticut shore, we decided it was time to start a family!

Kids today
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Our children bring us incredible joy every day.

Mary, 9 years old, is like a little sprite who dances through life. She is a passioante ballerina, reader and creator. She always has new ideas to share and is curious about the world around her. Mary loves her friends but always makes sure to have her younger brother be part of their play. She is an incredible role model for Will and has been running "preschool" classes for him, since he was born, where she teaches him a new skill like how to take a dance bow or play piano.

Will, 3 years old, is our busy little love bug. He is full of adventure and from day 1 has wanted to be on the move. He knows how to crack jokes, is very into trains and has taken up soccer in the kitchen over the winter months. He is happy-go-lucky and is excited for any activity outside, especially with Mary.

Every day we count our blessings that we have our two wonderful children.

Some of our favorite moments with our children include Disney trips, learning to ice skate, Mary's first (unexpected) dance solo, the backyard bouncy house, camping, and countless beach days. We love to celebrate birthdays in a big way and birthday parties are always unique and creative, our kids love to be part of the planning, crafting, decorating and baking to get ready for their own or siblings birthday party.

Watching our children grow together has been the greastet gift and we hope to add one more to this magical journey of parenting.

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Their journey

Home area
38 Linbrook Road, West Hartford, CT, USA
Approximate area
Journey country
United States
Financial preparedness

We are prepared to dive into this journey! We estimate a base compensation of around $60k and would cover all medical expenses, travel costs, etc.

Embryos
Yes.

We have two high graded embryos and one high grade mosaic embryo.

Clinic
Center for Advanced Reproductive Services
Agency
Not using an agency
What they're looking for
Their hopes and requirements for a surrogate
Requirements

Clinic Requirements:

 Between ages 23-40 with at least one previous pregnancy with healthy delivery

 BMI cut off is 35 (non agency case by case up to 40)

 Cleared to be a gestational carrier by their Obstetrician (need letter of clearance)

 Recommended up to date Covid-19 vaccine status (initial vaccine series completed)

*Intended parents will need to sign a waiver if GC is not COVID vaccinated

 No more than 5 previous deliveries and no more than 2 previous cesarean sections

 At least 10 months since last vaginal or cesarean birth

 Tubal ligation, blood transfusions, and LEEP procedures are acceptable

 No pre-term labor (earliest date for singleton or twins is 36 weeks)

 No history of placenta previa or placenta accreta

 No history of domestic violence in background check of GC or their partner

 No government assistance for basic survival (food stamps)

 No alcohol or drug use, including prescription marijuana.

 No unresolved or untreated addiction

 No unresolved or untreated history of having experienced sexual or physical abuse,

depression, or an eating disorder.

 No current marital or relationship instability

 No ongoing legal issues/court cases

 No history of noncompliance during past pregnancies or history of ongoing problematic

interactions with medical staff

 No history of major depression, bipolar disorder psychosis or significant anxiety disorder

The relationship we hope to build

We are very open to a gestational carrier with a variety of backgrounds and personalities because we know you would be entering into this journey with the best of intentions to deliver a healthy baby. We hope that our future carrier has a stable support system. We are looking for someone who leads a healthy overall lifestyle and is kind and compassionate. We are familiar with an independent journey since we navigated our journey last time independetly. This time around, we have already secured a wonderful organization that helps with case management and screening, primarily as a support person for you for the start of this journey.

Kate is a vegetarian but we support whatever food choices work best for you as long as you are able to add some fruits and veggies into your diet. We are open to whatever communication you feel comfortable with. With our prior gestational carrier we had a very open line of communication and have continued to stay in contact through family play dates. We ended up really enjoying eachother and our kids love her children! We also are open to a more distant relationship if that is your style. We hope you live a somewhat active lifestyle but willing to slow down as needed. We will have confidence that you will take good care of our embryo - baby and don’t feel the need to micromanage. We do ask that our carrier do kick counts and be responsive to any changes in that data.

Vaccination information

Our clinic requires a waiver if a carrier chooses not to get the Covid vaccination.

Views on termination

We would only terminate if medical professionals determined the child was not compatible with life or the gestational carriers' well being was at risk.

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The intended parents

Kate W photo

Kate W(She/Her)

40 years old
Communicates in

English

Occupation

Early Childhood Specialist and Behavior Analyst

Religion

Christianity

Sexual orientation

Straight

Fun facts about me

We have completed the 1000 hours outside challenge 2 years in a row and are going strong for year 3!

Last year I planned Thanksgiving for my side of the family, which ended up being 102 people at the Thanksgiving table (s)! Shockingly, everyone was family.

I am an only child but grew up with cousins like siblings.

Every June, the mom crew take all the kids camping by ourselves.

Interests and hobbies

I am always planning an adventure or activity outside to get us in nature. I love a good beach or pool day in the summer and playing in the snow in the winter! I love to craft but recently have turned that into projects and crafts with the kids. Baking with the kids, though messy, brings me joy, they are always helping make dinner or make a special dessert. I am Mary’s Girl Scout troop leader, I am on the parent advisory committee at Mary’s dance school, and am a room parent. We love spending time with our extended family, spending holidays with cousins on their Christmas tree farm, our Thanksgivings are massive, we always have Easter at the beach house and 4th of July we have a neighborhood parade then go to the Symphony orchestra and fireworks with friends and family.

I am passionate about my career with my goal of helping children with disabilities meet their highest potential.

Annually, we host a block party in-front of our house on the last day of school and before Christmas we have a Night Tree party where we decorate pinecone ornaments with birdseed and bring them down to the brook to feed the birds for winter.

What friends say
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Bubbly and enthusiastic! I value kindness and inclusiveness. I try to be a good friend to all! I am the first to organize a get together or volunteer to help.

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(He/Him)

40 years old
Communicates in

English

Occupation

Patent Attorney, neuroscientist

Religion

Catholic

Sexual orientation

Straight

Fun facts about me

I like to make my own maple syrup!

I have built multiple computers.

I have two green houses in the basement to start plants for the garden in January. By September our garden will be a jungle.

Interests and hobbies

I love to spend time with our family in the garden, playing with our kids, and doing projects around the house. I play hockey on a men’s league and got the opportunity to teach our son and other youngsters to skate and play hockey this year. I love a good game of Mario Kart with our kids. I dabble in photography, particurally of constelations and night shots. We never miss a clear night to take the kids outside to look for shooting stars or check out what constellation we can find.

What friends say
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My friends describe me as lively and always there when they need someone. Though sometimes more introverted, when I am comfortable, I am lots of fun! I am known for always being ready to throw a backyard cookout or watch a game on the patio with neighbors. I value kindness, science and staying connected with the ones you love.

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Their story

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