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Intended parent

Jam L

Doing their journey in United States
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About them

My path to motherhood has taken more twists, turns and years than I ever imagined. After many rounds of “if this doesn’t work, I’m done” (spoiler: I was apparently never done), I’m here hoping to find someone special to help me take one last, very meaningful step toward becoming a mom. 💛

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Their journey

Home area
969 Moda Drive, Atlanta, GA, USA
Approximate area
Journey country
United States
Financial preparedness

Ideally, I am looking for someone who can work with a base compensation in the $45-$55K range depending on the full compensation package and other associated cost. My goal is to find an arrangement that is financially sustainable for my lower overall budget while ensuring my surrogate feels fairly compensated and supported.

I'm pursuing an independent+guided journey and plan to use professional screening, legal, escrow and case-management support as needed.

Embryos
Yes.
  • 1x 6AA euploid (tested)

  • 1x 6AB euploid (tested)

Clinic
CNY Fertility
Agency
Not using an agency
What they're looking for
Their hopes and requirements for a surrogate
Requirements
  • U.S. Citizen

  • NOT located in: Arizona, Arkansas, Florida, Kentucky, Louisiana, Tennessee, or Texas

  • Age 44 and under

  • A minimum of 1 and maximum of 5 previous deliveries

  • In great health

  • No more than 3 previous C-sections; history of vaginal delivery preferred

  • Willing to travel to Sarasota, FL for the embryo transfer

  • No smoking or recreational drug use; no alcohol once the transfer protocol begins.

  • Previous GC or IVF experience desired (but not a requirement)

The relationship we hope to build

I would love to have a surrogate who is genuinely excited about giving someone the gift of motherhood (while of course being compensated for the incredible commitment she's making). Someone who takes care of herself and has a good support system. I'm flexible on communication and the type of relationship we have. As long as I'm informed and understand how things are going, I'm comfortable following her lead on how much communication and connection feels natural.

Vaccination information

I would like the surrogate to be up to date on standard childhood immunizations.

No preference on COVID or seasonal flu vaccines.

Views on termination

I would like the surrogate to be willing to terminate if continuing the pregnancy poses a serious risk to her health or if testing confirms a significant fetal abnormality or medical condition that would be a severe detriment to the child's ability to live an independent life. I would like the surrogate to be willing to undergo recommended screening and diagnostic testing and any concerning findings would be reviewed with the appropriate medical professionals before making a decision, including additional testing or second opinions when appropriate. Termination is a very serious decision that would be made carefully based on the diagnosis, prognosis, and medical guidance.

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The intended parent

Jam L photo

Jam L(She/Her)

49 years old
Communicates in

English

Occupation

Marketing

Religion

Christianity

Sexual orientation

Straight

Fun facts about me
  • I sang the National Anthem at a minor league baseball game.

  • I was an officer in the U.S. Air Force.

  • I'm the oldest of eight children.

  • I've never had a cup of coffee.

Interests and hobbies

I'm a world traveler, a workaholic, a wanna-be athlete, a decorated car-singer, a proud auntie, and a total nerd, to name a few. These days when I'm not working, I enjoy lounging, home improvement, get-togethers with friends and family, fantasy football, and learning new things ( I'm always curious about how or why something is the way it is). My favorite topics to follow include: health and finance, geopolitics and pop culture. I also have a heart for music, I'm a big Mariah Carey fan and have a YouTube channel where we dive into her songs.

What friends say
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Witty, sarcastic, direct, loyal, responsible, objective and determined (not really the words I would have picked lol). They say I’m adventurous although I feel risk averse. They say I don’t seem emotional when I feel like I’m an open book. And apparently I have a great poker face, while at the same time my facial expressions speak volumes 🤷🏽‍♀️😅. Overall, I think they’d probably describe me as reliable, thoughtful and pretty even-keeled.

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Their story

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Questions & answers

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