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Intended parents

Felix Ouellet

Doing their journey in Canada
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About them

We are Felix Ouellet (43) and Xin Wen (38). We first met in 2013 while attending university. We became a couple in 2018 and got married in 2020. In 2021 we started trying to have a baby naturally, but after over a year trying we turned to an IVF clinic in 2023, where we were diagnosed with low sperm count and motility for Felix, and diminished ovarian reserve for Xin. We thought things would work out, especially since several embryos passed the PGT-A. Sadly, despite multiple transfers, no implantation was successful, and no clear reason was found. We currently have two frozen embryos and are about to start another IVF cycle, hoping to create more. Now, we are exploring surrogacy with open hearts and gratitude.

Relationship status

Married

We first met in 2013 while attending university. In 2014, a small but meaningful moment sparked our connection: Xin needed help resolving an issue with her health card, but her French was still quite basic. Felix stepped in, kindly called the provider, and explained the details of the issue and solution. His patience, responsibility, and kindness made a strong first impression on Xin. After 2 years working in the same lab, Xin’s positivity, hard work and cheerfulness also made a strong impression on Felix. We became good friends, and over the years, that friendship deepened into something more. In 2016, while hiking at Mont-Orford National Park, we were asked at dusk if we'd seen a family with two kids. Realizing they might be lost, we called 911 and stayed until they were found safe. That experience showed us just how much we shared in terms of values—compassion, responsibility, and a deep sense of care for others. We became a couple in 2018 and got married in 2020.

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Their journey

Home area
133 Bankfield Crescent, Hamilton, ON, Canada
Approximate area
Journey country
Canada
Financial preparedness

We understand that surrogacy can come with many anticipated costs—not just financially, but also emotionally and logistically. We want to make sure you feel supported and prepared for the journey ahead. We want to reassure you that we are financially prepared and have full-time jobs, so the costs will be fully covered. Our priority is to ensure you feel confident and secure as you embark on this experience.

Embryos
Yes.

Currently, we have two embryos which passed the PGT-A test. We are also about to start another egg retrieval.

Clinic
Trio Fertility
What they're looking for
Their hopes and requirements for a surrogate
Requirements

According to our clinic, minimum requirements for a surrogate would be that she be in excellent physical health; must not use tobacco, alcohol, or illegal drugs; prior pregnancy and delivery; prior deliveries 4 or less; prior C-sections 2 or less; 43 or younger; BMI of 35 or less; partner must consent to screening; she must be free of communicable diseases.

The relationship we hope to build

We are looking for someone who is kind, empathetic, active, prioritizes balanced nutrition, and communicates openly. We deeply value someone who is responsible and dependable, as this journey requires trust and mutual support. We are hoping to build a respectful and caring relationship throughout this process—one where both sides feel heard, appreciated, and supported.

Vaccination information

N/A

Views on termination

As part of the surrogacy journey, there are sometimes difficult medical or ethical decisions to make, including the possibility of termination due to health risks or severe fetal anomalies. Our view is that in extreme cases medical termination is necessary. Also, we'd like to understand your views on this, just to make sure we're all on the same page. We completely respect your personal beliefs, and we’re looking for someone whose values align with ours so that everyone feels supported throughout the process.

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The intended parents

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Felix Ouellet(He/Him)

43 years old
Communicates in

English, and French

Occupation

Environmental Scientist

Religion

Non-religious

Sexual orientation

Straight

Fun facts about me

Both my wife and I enjoy turning license-plate spotting into a fun little game. Whether we are on a road trip, walking through a parking lot, or just waiting at a red light, we like to check where plates are from, when they were created, and what the number or letter pattern might mean etc.

One other fun fact about me is that I enjoy geography-guessing games, such as the kind where you’re dropped into a random location on Google Maps and have to figure out where in the world you are.

Interests and hobbies

I really enjoy watching all kinds of movies, from sci-fi and thrillers to action, comedies, and dramas, for the excitement as well as for the perspective. Video games are another favorite pastime, especially those with historical settings that let me explore the past in an interactive way. My taste in music is broad—I love everything from rock and pop to classical.

In the summer, I make the most of the outdoors by hiking scenic trails, cycling around new areas, camping in nature, and tending to our garden. During the winter months, I stay active and energized with workouts in our mini home gym.

Whenever I have the chance, I love traveling, discovering new places, and experiencing different cultures—it’s one of my favorite ways to gain fresh perspectives and create lasting memories.

What friends say
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My friends would describe me as someone who leads with kindness and honesty. They often note my patience—whether I’m helping someone work through a problem or taking the time to learn something new. They also see me as quick to understand, learn, and devise solutions. In short, the people close to me know me as reliable, caring, and driven—someone who approaches life with heart.

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(She/Her)

38 years old
Communicates in

English, and French

Occupation

Environmental Scientist

Religion

Non-religious

Sexual orientation

Straight

Fun facts about me

Both my husband and I enjoy turning license-plate spotting into a fun little game. Whether we are on a road trip, walking through a parking lot, or just waiting at a red light, we like to check where plates are from, when they were created, and what the number or letter pattern might mean etc.

Another fun fact about me is that I am a handyman at heart. I enjoy making small renovations to our home, e.g., replacing floors and re-painting.

Interests and hobbies

I love hiking—not just for the exercise, but for the sense of peace that comes from being surrounded by nature. I’m the type of person who will happily pause to hug a tree, or admire a quiet forest path. My appreciation for nature also extends to plants. I enjoy caring for plants at home and feeling the satisfaction of watching them grow.

Cooking is another passion of mine. I enjoy experimenting with dishes from different countries, learning new skills, and discovering flavours I’ve never tried before.

Staying active is important to me as well. I make a point of exercising regularly, and on many days I walk around 20,000 steps—it’s my favourite way to clear my mind and stay healthy.

I love traveling, e.g., visiting new places, tasting local foods, and noticing how people live differently around the world.

What friends say
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My friends would say that I am someone who leads with kindness, empathy, and sincerity. They often describe me as smart—not just in terms of knowledge, but in the way I think things through and approach challenges with clarity and curiosity. Perseverance is another quality they see in me. When I commit to something, I stay dedicated, even when the path gets difficult. I don’t give up easily, and I’m willing to put in the effort to reach my goals. My friends also say I’m resourceful; I tend to find creative solutions, and stay calm when things don’t go according to plan. Overall, they know me as someone dependable, thoughtful, and steady—someone they can trust, and who works hard.

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Their story

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Questions & answers

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