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Intended parents

Rene O.

Doing their journey in Canada
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About them

Dear future surrogate,

we are Thorsten and René, a couple from Germany for 14 years and married for 5 years now. As an early childhood educator and a nurse, we earn our living by caring for and supporting other people. Now, we are the ones who need support from others that can help us. Unfortunately, we cannot get pregnant ourselves...we have tried...but...we think we should get some help.

Maybe from you?

Relationship status

Married

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Their journey

Home area
Hückelhoven, Germany
Approximate area
Journey country
Canada
Financial preparedness

We have planned our journey many years. We have had calls with other couples that already have had a journey in US or Canada and we are prepared to go on with our journey.

Embryos
Yes.

We have ten embryos ready for transfer.

Clinic
Anova Fertility & Reproductive Health
What they're looking for
Their hopes and requirements for a surrogate
Requirements

We work with Anova in Toronto and their requirements for a surrogate are:

BMI < or = 35

at least one prior baby

no more than three caesarean sections or agrees to planned caesarian delivery

no history of PID

no addictions (smoking, drugs, alcohol)

normal sonohysterogram

not older than 43 years of age

The relationship we hope to build

We would love to meet a person that loves to laugh and enjoys live. Even a good (and somtimes dark) sense of humor would be great since we both enjoy this kind of jokes.

We would love to have regular contact by Email or for example WhatsApp, so we could do video calls aswell.

Vaccination information

We would be happy if the future surrogate has received the routine vaccinations recommended in her region. Other than that, we do not have any specific preferences regarding to vaccinations, as long as it is save for both of them, her and the unborn baby, during pregnancy.

Views on termination

Termination of pregnancy is a very difficult and sensitive topic. We believe that it is not a decision that should be made by one person alone during this journey, but rather one that should be discussed together, with the guidance and advice of qualfierd medical professionals. If the surrogate's health or life is at risk, we would fully support ending the pregnancy. Likewise, if it turns out that the baby would not be viable or would be unable to survive, we would also support that decision.

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The intended parents

Rene O. photo

Rene O.(He/Him)

33 years old
Communicates in

English, and German

Occupation

nurse

Religion

Christianity

Sexual orientation

Gay

Fun facts about me

I used to be part of a musical theatre group, when I was younger and we performed for example "Spring Awakening" or "Dance of the Vampires".

In addition to being part of a musical thearte group, I took ballroom and Latin dance lessons for seven years and still love to dance today, although I don't do it often in public.

Another funfact is that I am a bit nerdy and enjoy watching animes or playing pen and paper with my husband and our friends.

Interests and hobbies

I enjoy reading fantasy and thriller books, especially when the story is so griping that it's impossible to put the book away. Furthermore I prefer rock music and some techno or classic musicals (yeah, I know, it´s cliché) or just being outside, listening to sounds of nature. My newest hobby is spending time with our young dogs, Ylva and Skadi, our six-month-old husky-labrador mixes. I also like going to the gym or just hanging out with friends and have a good time, for example playing pen and paper adventures or visiting medieval markets.

Besides of medieval period I am interested in nothern mythologie and viking mythologie.

What friends say
“

I asked some friends and here is what they answered:

One friend of me said, that I am ambitious, charming and often direct and honest.

Another friend says, that I always stand uo for the people who are important to me. I enjoy making others laugh, but also take my responsibilities seriously.

Another one describes me as loyal, honest, helpful and humorous. She also describes me as a passionate person, especially about animals and nature, hardworking, ambitious and - above all- always honest.

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(He/Him)

35 years old
Communicates in

German, and English

Occupation

early childhood educator

Religion

Christianity

Sexual orientation

Gay

Fun facts about me

A funfact is actually that many people first see me as serious and intimidating. In reality, I am a very palyful free spirit who always tries to see the good in people.

Interests and hobbies

As for my hobbies, I enjoy being creative, which includes painting, drawing, carving and other artistic activities. I am interested in herbs and their uses, and I enjoy spending time in nature.

I also enjoy medieval fairs and find the medieval period fascinating in general.

I like games, especially when I can play them with friends.

And I love books, particularly fantasy stories, fairy tales and psychological literature.

What friends say
“

One of my friends describes me as a loayal, caring and resposible friend whom I would trust my life without hesitation.

Another friend says ' How would I describe you? Considerate, intelligent and organized.

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Their story

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Questions & answers

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