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Intended parents

Rebecca Brugmans

Doing their journey in Canada
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About them

Ryan and Rebecca are a warm, loving couple excited to grow their family through surrogacy. 9 healthy embryos are on ice and ready to go! Their relationship is built on laughter, respect, and a deep appreciation for the people (and their kitties 🐱) in their lives. Rebecca’s journey includes overcoming childhood cancer, which led to the loss of her left kidney and part of her right. After extensive medical guidance, they’ve learned that pregnancy poses serious health risks. Their priority is ensuring she can be there, healthy and present, to raise their child.

Rebecca has had the honour of supporting many surrogates and IP’s on their journeys as an OB/GYN sonographer. It would be a full circle moment to get to match and experience a journey herself 🩷

With open hearts and gratitude, Ryan and Rebecca are hoping to connect with an amazing surrogate soon! We are looking for a journey grounded in trust, care, and shared purpose.

Relationship status

Married

Ryan and I have been together for three years. We were introduced through a mutual friend during Christmastime. Our first date was at Becca's favourite cafe. Ryan ate both desserts because Becca was too embarrassed and nervous to get icing sugar on her face (Ryan quickly learned this was a one time thing, Becca loves her food). We talked about everything under the sun. Closing down the cafe, and continuing the date across the street now wanting the night to end. After 7 hours, Ryan walked Becca to her car like a gentleman. If you know Ryan, you know he loves "How I met your Mother." He definitely took his love advice from the show, when he decided Becca gave "the signal" (kiss me eyes) and planted one. Becca was so surprised, and laughed at the audacity... but secretly loved it.

We love music and going to concerts. Some of our favourite concerts were City and Colour, BRKN Love, Nickelback and Maroon 5 at Bluesfest; and Greenday at OSHEAGA. One of our favourite memories was our trip to PEI. It was filled with beautiful landscapes and delicious food. Ryan tried a lot of new things and Becca was so proud (Ryan might be a wee bit picky)! Now we share a love of lobster, mussels, scallops and coconut cream pie! One of our favourite memories together is watching the sunset at Stanhope beach šŸ’•

Ryan proposed at Mackenzie King Estate during a winter photoshoot in -16 weather, knee deep snow and completely improper outerwear (imagine Becca in a dress and heels trekking through the snow)... Our photographer (and now MOH) Courtney, captured our cold, frozen faces as Ryan got down on one knee and proposed. It was the most wonderful and uncomfortable moment, but so worth it!

We’ve settled into our country home last year. Since then we’ve worked to make our house a home. A safe haven for our family and friends. To grow old together ā¤ļø We live 8 houses down from Becca’s childhood home and parents. We are all very close.

Our wedding (June 27, 2026) was easily the best day of our lives 🩷 See photos!!!

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Their journey

Home area
6980 Viola Street, Ottawa, ON, Canada
Approximate area
Journey country
Canada
Financial preparedness

We are by no means rich, but we do have a fund we have been setting aside money for. We also have a line of credit available and our parents have offered to help where they can. It is a no brainer for us that we will support whatever is needed for the pregnancy.

Embryos
Yes.

We have 12 mature embryos which have all passed genetic screening.

Clinic
Create Fertility
Agency
Not using an agency
Other support

We are going through couples therapy to help us deepen our bond and as we walk through our fertility journey.

What they're looking for
Their hopes and requirements for a surrogate
Requirements

We are very practical, we just want someone who values their health and will plan to have healthy habits during the pregnancy (ie. no smoking, drinking or eating foods that could cause harm to the baby).

As far was we know our clinic doesn’t have any additional requirements!

The relationship we hope to build

We’d love to connect with someone in Ottawa but it is not a must!

We’d love to work with someone who is an available / open communicator. You can expect the same from us! :)

Vaccination information

Childhood vaccinations please :)

Views on termination

We are pro-choice. If there is a fetal condition not compatible with life and will put the health of someone at risk, termination is warranted for safety reasons.

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The intended parents

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Rebecca Brugmans(She/Her)

31 years old
Communicates in

English

Occupation

Maternal Fetal Medicine Sonographer

Fun facts about me

I am tall, I used it to my advantage. I played competitive basketball for many years, later playing basketball in college, go thunder !

I had many ultrasounds growing up and they ultimately played a critical role in saving my life. The sonographer who discovered my cancer continued to perform my scans afterward, and over time we developed a close bond. I was always fascinated by the machine itself, as a child I thought the buttons looked far too interesting not to press.

Years later, after I had ā€œgraduatedā€ from the children’s hospital (CHEO), I completed a co-op placement while trying to figure out my path in medicine. By chance, or maybe fate, I ran into that same sonographer on my last day of placement. She told me I should pursue a career in ultrasound. I doubted whether I was capable, but she quickly set me straight.

I’ve now been working in the field for 10 years, and I feel incredibly fortunate to have had the opportunity to pay it forward. I will always be grateful that our paths crossed when they did and that she empowered me to pursue Ultrasound. Each time I make a connection/help a patient, I think of her and try to make her proud. Show the same care, empathy and skill she demonstrated with me all those years. We have kept in touch since and she is going to be attending our wedding in June.

I’ve experienced first hand, how you can turn a difficult situation into something beautiful and form lasting bonds with those who support you along the way. I truly believe we cross paths with people for a reason. A big part of me is looking forward to starting the journey of surrogacy because of the opportunity to create a beautiful bond with the person who would bring my child into this world.

Years into my career, I’ve ultrasound many surrogates/IP’s babies! It has felt amazing to support them on their journey and I hope one day I’ll have the opportunity to be on the other side!!

We have four sweet kitties at home, which we absolutely adore. Ollie, Blue, Hazel and Tigger. They are all so snuggly and playful. We are so lucky to have them in our lives.

Interests and hobbies

I’m someone who genuinely loves what I do: working in women’s health and supporting people through their OB/GYN journeys. Lately, I’ve been diving deeper into fetal cardiac imaging, and it’s only made me more passionate about the field. I’m always learning, always curious, and I find a lot of meaning connecting with my patients.

At work it’s fast paced, at home, I like to slow things down a bit. I’ll happily get lost in a smutty book, or unwind watching a good movie. I also love being outside: gardening, bird watching and wandering through nature… I love food, particularly trying new things or spots to eat around the city.

Recently, we were learning to dance for our wedding June (2026) wedding and it quickly became something I love to do with Ryan. We’re hoping to continue attending lessons long-term as a hobby together!

I absolutely LOVE trying new things, particularly new foods!!! We’ll be fast friends if you share your favourite book or snack ;)

What friends say
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My friends would describe me as thoughtful, caring, and quick to find the humour in everyday moments. My friends know they can count on me for support, a laugh, or just someone to listen.

I value the relationships in my life and don’t take them for granted. Life is too short not to appreciate the small things, so I make a point to slow down and enjoy them. I choose kindness everyday, I like being someone who adds to the good in this world.

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(He/Him)

31 years old
Communicates in

English

Occupation

Structural Engineer

Interests and hobbies

I love sports, whether I am watching them or playing them. Especially hockey, soccer, volleyball, and baseball.

I am a big car enthusiast. Sport cars, super cars and trucks. A life long dream would be to just sit in a super car, but I don’t think they make them to fit people who are tall like me! I might bump my head.

Both my grandfather and father were really into wood working and being the handy man around the house. I’ve definitely taken to this myself and embarked upon a big reno on the home we moved into last summer. We are so happy and proud of how it turned out. Our house feels like a home now.

What friends say
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Friends describe me as funny without trying. A little quirky; making random dad jokes, and a bit silly to get people laughing.

I try to be thoughtful, helpful and reliable in a very real, practical way. I’m usually the one people turn to when something needs fixing, or figuring out; that mindset of ā€œI’ll take care of it.ā€

All in all, someone who’s fun to be around but also someone people trust and appreciate having in their corner.

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