Christina Sciortino

Our clinic has provided us with some general guidelines for a safe and healthy journey. They recommend that a surrogate be between the ages of 21–45, have had at least one healthy pregnancy and delivery, and be in overall good health with no major complications in past pregnancies. A stable BMI and non-smoking lifestyle are also preferred. Beyond medical guidelines, what matters most to us is working with someone who feels comfortable, supported, and respected throughout the process.

Beyond the medical guidelines, what matters most to us is finding a surrogate who feels like the right fit personally. We value open and honest communication, kindness, and mutual respect. We’d love to work with someone who is family-oriented, caring, and dependable — qualities that we also try to live by in our own lives. Lifestyle-wise, a healthy and balanced approach is important, but above all, we hope to connect with someone who shares the belief that this journey is built on trust, support, and partnership.

We value the health and safety of both our surrogate and our future baby. Our clinic recommends that surrogates be up to date on routine vaccinations, including childhood vaccines. We’re aligned with this guidance and believe it helps create the healthiest possible environment for everyone involved. That said, we’re happy to have open conversations and follow the advice of our medical team to make sure everyone feels comfortable and supported.

We understand that conversations around pregnancy termination can be difficult but are very important to have upfront. Our perspective is to follow the guidance of our medical team and specialists if serious medical concerns arise. While our deepest hope is for a smooth, healthy pregnancy, we believe in making decisions that protect the health and safety of both the surrogate and the baby. We know this is a sensitive and personal topic, and we’re committed to open, respectful conversations to make sure we are fully aligned together before moving forward.