Thirteen years ago, we took a chance on online dating back when admitting you met online was still embarrassing. Now we're two dentists living in Perth, Western Australia, who have traveled halfway around the world and are ready for our biggest adventure: parenthood.
We have embryos ready in Canada and a lot of love to give. We're hoping to find an extraordinary person who can help turn our dream of becoming parents into reality.
Life partner
We've been diligent from the start about ensuring we're financially ready for this step. Our surrogacy program expenses have been paid, and we've set aside dedicated funds for all associated costs.
We know this journey requires significant commitment from our surrogate, and we're prepared to cover all reasonable expenses to make the experience as comfortable and supported as possible.
We have 7 PGT-A tested embryos: one created in the US with a long-term friend's egg donation, and 6 created with our wonderful egg donor in Canada.
Surrogate requirements from our clinic include:
Patient Factors:
- Age: between 20-45 years old
- Non-smoker/non-vaper
- No alcohol, drugs, or marijuana (THC or CBD) during pregnancy
- BMI under 35
- No more than two antidepressant medications (if possible)
Obstetric History:
- No more than 3 previous cesarean sections
- No significant obstetrical complications in previous pregnancies
- Less than 6 total pregnancies
As healthcare professionals, we value evidence-based healthcare and are looking for a surrogate who is fully vaccinated and comfortable following medical recommendations.
We believe in following medical guidance when it comes to termination decisions. The surrogate's health and safety is our top priority, and we would support termination if recommended due to maternal health risks or severe fetal abnormalities that would significantly impact quality of life.
English
Dentist
Non-religious
Gay
In high school, I cracked my hip while competing at pole-vaulting championships.
I've lived in more than half of the Australian states and territories. Work has led me to move every two years, give or take!
I work as a dentist and give injections every day, but I can't stand to look when they take my blood for a test or give me the flu jab. I have to talk non-stop to the nurse and pinch my finger to distract myself - it's the only way I can get through it!
Crossfit: I love the community at my gym, and they challenge me to do better every time.
Cooking and baking with Peter: we’re always finding new recipes to try.
Podcasts: top favourites are If Books Could Kill, Maintenance Phase and Ologies with Allie Ward
Concerts: Kylie Minogue's Tension Tour and Lady Gaga's The Mayhem Ball were two top highlights of 2025.
Travelling: we love experiencing new cultures and visiting family and friends.
Museums: I’ll spend hours unless Peter gives me a time limit!
English
Dentist
Non-religious
Gay
I'm left-handed, but I can only use scissors with my right hand.
Once, I travelled to Seattle because I love the TV show Frasier so much.
I can never bring myself to throw away a book, even one I've read 20 times.
I've driven across the Nullabor, from Perth to Sydney, a trip of 4,000km. Just before Adelaide, we thought we ran out of petrol, until we remembered the jerry can on the back of the 4WD.
History: I love learning new things from a variety of sources, be it books, podcasts or documentaries.
Travel and photography: I love to see the world and experience new cultures. Photos from my travels bring back treasured memories.
Cooking and baking: I share my creations with friends and colleagues.
Ceramics: I enjoy the creative process and creating pieces for around the house.
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