Intended parents

Jeff Alcala

Doing their journey in Canada

About them

Hi, we’re Jeff and Justin! We’ve been together since 2018 and live in Vancouver with our dog, Luna. This year, 2026, we got married at Vancouver City Hall, celebrating the life we’ve built together.

Our home is full of shared meals, game nights, and gatherings with people we love. We’ve dreamed of becoming parents for years and hope to meet someone who feels comfortable taking this next step with us. We’d love to get to know you and build a connection rooted in kindness, trust, and open communication.

Relationship status

Married

We’ve been together since 2018 and got married in 2026 at Vancouver City Hall. Our life is filled with travel, walks with our dog, Luna, and time with family and friends. Jeff loves bringing people together, while Justin brings a steady presence and plenty of fun with his party games.

We’ve supported each other through joy and heartbreak on our path to parenthood. Becoming parents has been our shared dream for years, and we look forward to welcoming a child into the loving home and community we’ve built together.

Their journey

Home area

88 W 1st Ave, Vancouver, BC, Canada

Approximate area

Journey country

Canada

Financial preparedness

We’ve planned approximately $35,000 to $40,000 CAD for surrogate expenses, including eligible pregnancy expenses and lost wages. We’re also prepared to cover medical, legal, and travel costs, including flights to the clinic, hotels, and meals. We want you to feel supported and comfortable discussing expenses openly, with clear expectations from the beginning.

Embryos

Yes.

We have three embryos stored at CReATe Fertility in Toronto, all of which have undergone PGT M and PGT A testing and are ready for transfer. We plan to transfer one embryo at a time and are happy to share the testing results and further details with our potential surrogate.

Clinic

CReATe Fertility Centre

What they're looking for

Their hopes and requirements for a surrogate

Requirements

We hope to connect with someone who:

Is between 25 and 38 years old, with a BMI below 35.
Does not smoke or use recreational drugs.
Has had no more than five previous births and no major pregnancy complications.
Has a stable home environment, a strong support system, and reliable transportation.
Ideally lives in British Columbia and open to meeting someone in Canada.
Meets our fertility clinic’s medical screening requirements, including a review of any medications to confirm they are suitable for pregnancy.

We value our surrogate’s physical and mental well-being and want her to feel supported throughout the journey.

The relationship we hope to build

We’d love someone who is kind, reliable, and easy to talk to. Open communication matters to us and want you to feel comfortable sharing how you’re doing, asking questions, and telling us what you need. We hope to get to know you, share some laughs, and build a connection where everyone feels supported and respected. Family, community, and inclusion are a big part of our lives, and we’d love someone who shares those values.

Vaccination information

We’d prefer someone who is up to date on routine vaccinations and comfortable discussing recommended vaccinations for pregnancy, including flu, with her healthcare provider. We’re happy to talk openly about any questions or concerns.

Views on termination

We would consider termination in the event of a serious fetal medical condition or a risk to our surrogate’s health. The well-being of our surrogate and baby matters deeply to us. We would approach any decision with compassion, open communication, and medical guidance, ensuring our surrogate feels supported and heard.

The intended parents

Jeff Alcala(He/Him)

39 years old

Communicates in

English

Occupation

Travel Consultant

Religion

Catholic

Sexual orientation

Gay

Fun facts about me

I’ve called five countries home Saudi Arabia, the Philippines, the United States, Japan, and Canada, and each has shaped who I am.
I love turning a simple get together into an occasion. Our annual pumpkin-carving party has become a favourite tradition!
I’m a travel designer, so planning adventures is both my work and something I love.
My ideal weekend includes discovering a new café, eating sushi, and spending time with Justin and our dog, Luna.
I love cooking for people, sharing a meal and hosting dinners is one of my favourite ways to bring everyone together.

Interests and hobbies

We love travelling, being outdoors, and trying new foods, especially sushi! We enjoy discovering cafés, going to CrossFit, and walking our dog, Luna. Justin loves learning Japanese, while Jeff enjoys cooking and hosting gatherings.

Family and community mean a lot to us. We love making people feel welcome and look forward to sharing our adventures and traditions with our child.

What friends say

“
My friends would describe me as a community builder, outgoing, and thoughtful. I love bringing people together and making everyone feel welcome. Whether it’s coffee, lunch, or a walk, I make time each week to catch up with one friend. And I love hosting a good themed dinner each season. Life gets busy, but staying connected and showing up for the people I love matters to me.
”

(He/Him)

42 years old

Communicates in

English

Occupation

Department Head for Bio Chemistry

Religion

Christianity

Sexual orientation

Gay

Fun facts about me

I’m a biology professor, but at our parties, my other role is “game master.” I love making up games and getting everyone involved.
I’m learning Japanese and enjoy practising on our trips to Japan, which we try to take every year.
Jeff and I got married this year! It’s been special to see our shared goals come together as we build our life and look forward to becoming parents.
My ideal weekend includes sushi, discovering a new café, and a walk with Jeff and our dog, Luna.

Interests and hobbies

I enjoy learning Japanese, playing video games, and our daily evening walks with Jeff and Luna. We love discovering cafés, eating sushi, and visiting Japan annually, where we’ve made good friends over the years.

I’m also a big fan of cards and board games. When we host friends, I’m usually the “game master,” making up games and getting everyone involved.

What friends say

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“Justin is the friend you can always count on. If you need him, he’s there. He’s thoughtful, steady, and a friend that always listens. Bring out a board game and he’s in his element. At parties, he’s usually the one making up games and getting everyone involved.”
- from our friend Wendy
”

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