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Intended parents

Elyse H

Doing their journey in Canada
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About them

We’re Alan and Elyse, a married couple living north of the GTA in cottage country with our two small dogs. We enjoy summers by the lake, trying new foods, and quiet evenings in. After a long journey with infertility and a profound loss we are in need of a wonderful woman to bring our baby safely into the world. Thank you for taking the time to learn about us and for considering being part of our family’s story.

Relationship status

Married

October 2015: Engaged! (under the big red heart in the distillery district of Toronto, on our way to see real-life hero Jane Goodall speak)

July 2017: Married! (by the shores of Kempenfelt Bay with our friends and family by our side)

2017-Present: Too many adventures to count!

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Their journey

Home area
Oro-Medonte, ON, Canada
Approximate area
Journey country
Canada
Financial preparedness

We are happy to cover pregnancy-related expenses (up to $40k) plus additional support including doula, lost wages, counselling etc.

Embryos
Yes.

3 PGT normal embryos

Clinic
Hannam Fertility
Agency
Canadian Surrogacy Community
What they're looking for
Their hopes and requirements for a surrogate
Requirements
  • 21-40 years old

  • Enjoyed being pregnant - at least 1 previous uncomplicated pregnancy and birth

  • Healthy lifestyle with no daily medications.

  • Non-smoker/non-drug user

  • Clean criminal record

  • No more than 5 previous births or 3 c-sections

  • Has completed her family and has a stable household with support

  • Has reliable transportation

  • Willing to follow doctor recommendations for prenatal testing, ultrasounds, vaccines etc.

  • Open to any Canadian!

  • Would consider carrying the greatest gift we could imagine!

The relationship we hope to build

We’d like to attend appointments and stay in frequent contact during pregnancy including calls, messages, or little visits in-person. We also hope to stay in contact after the birth to share photos and milestones.

Vaccination information

Up to date on vaccinations preferred.

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The intended parents

Elyse H photo

Elyse H

39 years old
Communicates in

English

Occupation

Veterinarian

Sexual orientation

Straight

Fun facts about me

Beginner Ballroom Dancer - my favourite dance is the Waltz!

Former PADI Certified Rescue Scuba Diver.

Interests and hobbies

Sunbathing & lying on the dock.

Enjoying the great outdoors (from the indoors, cozy and warm with a blanket and a hot drink looking out the window at the landscape).

Sewing

Floral arranging

What friends say
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Feeling honored and grateful to have wonderful friends to travel through life with. In their own words:

"Funny - the kind of witty humour that has you do a double take because it's so dry and I'm not sure you're joking

Thoughtful - filled with compassion and deeply caring

Trustworthy - a reliable friend who you know is in your corner and will be there for you

Playful - easy to laugh and job around with, doesn't take self too seriously and wants to have fun with life

Conscienctious - cares deeply about acting with integrity using compassionate moral compass

Good listener - empathetic and kind support

Generous - thinking of others and giving benefit of the doubt"

"If you asked any of her friends how they'd describe Elyse, the answer would be unanimous: warm, genuine, and one of the most nurturing people you'll ever meet. She brings that same loving energy to everything she does, from her friendships and her animals, to the patients and families she cares for in her veterinary practice. She has a quick wit that keeps us all laughing, and a thoughtfulness that makes everyone around her feel truly seen, whether she's showing up during hard times, celebrating our successes, or opening her home so we can gather by the lake.

What moves me most personally is her grace. Despite navigating her own deeply personal fertility journey, she has never stopped showing up for the families growing around her, supporting us through our pregnancies, remembering our kids' birthdays, and connecting with them in that special way she has. She and Alan have so much love to give, and a child would be indescribably lucky to be raised by them both. We don't say this lightly: the world needs more people like her in it, and we cannot wait to watch her become the mother we know she's meant to be."

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40 years old
Communicates in

English, and Cantonese

Occupation

Veterinarian

Sexual orientation

Straight

Fun facts about me

I've met Stan Lee and have a photos with him

I can juggle

I've had the privilege of working with Giant Pandas in China

Interests and hobbies

Volleyball

Cooking, baking (and eating!!)

Iron Man fanatic and Marvel fanboy!

Scotch tasting

Proud supporter of the Leafs, Raptors and Blue Jays!

3D printing is my newest hobby

What friends say
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Outgoing, reliable, funny and empathetic are the most common words that are used to describe me.

From my friends, in their words:

"You're a friend that people naturally trust and respect. You are dependable, the kind of person who shows up, follows through and can be counted on when it matters most."

"You're a solid well-rounded family-oriented man who brings both strength and stability to the people around you"

"Whether it's a spontaneous night out for wings and beers or a quiet day to read or puzzle, Alan is always present and willing to participate in anything"

"Jolly and warm with a hint of sass"

"Protective and caring"

As per my sister-in-law: "Funny, happy-go-lucky, delicious bbq'er/amateur chef, intelligent, fan favourite, warm hearted, will hold your post-op fur baby to help with healing, rehomes orphaned socks"

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